Why We Form Relationships

Why We Form Relationships Corbin Smith Estrella Mountain Community College in that respect are many reasons as to why we form kins with a person. Appearance is wizard of those reasons. Most people claim that a persons constitution is the main reason why we get into a kind with them and not by the focusing they look which is re solelyy not true. There has to be some type of attraction towards their appearance because the way they look is extremely important in the early stages of a relationship.Even if your appearance isnt considered beautiful by social standards, people will find you attractive if youre just ordinary-looking with an amazing personality that fits the other persons needs. Attractive beauty may open doors to a relationship but it coins way more than just being attractive to keep a relationship going. Forming relationships is the ultimate way to gaining attraction and love towards a current person that you might want to be with for the rest of your life. Formin g relationships is a skill that not many people consider to be important but its a skill that most people want so they can find their lifelong partner.My understanding of this skill is that we all have used it at some point in our lives to form relationship, whether if its just a friendship or more than that. Like I said before, appearance is one of the main things that jumpstart a relationship but it wont be the only trait thatll keep a bond going. Similarity, complementary, competence, disclosure, proximity, and rewards are all factors in how relationship is formed. Ive used this skill plenty of times because Im a person who loves to make late friends and meet new people every single day.Whe neer I get the chance to meet someone new, whether if Im attracted to them or not, I try not to ignore the opportunity. I met a girl in the beginning of this semester who is just the most gorgeous girl Ive seen at this school so far. I had to take an opportunity to get to know this girl and fortunately, she gave me the light of day and now we two are really good friends. Not only does she look beautiful, we both have many of the same similarities such as music taste, fashion sense, and other amazing things. When I met her, I used her appearance to draw me to her and from and then on, it was the similarities and complementarities.By me using this skill, there have also been several consequences. Ive been shot down by many girls many times because of me being too positive(p) and by trying to get to know them way too fast. Unfortunately this skill doesnt always have to our advantage but it doesnt ache to try it. Like the old saying goes, Youll never know for yourself until you try. I live by that saying because you cant live your life in fear of getting rejected by people youre attracted to. Just take the chance and run with it. The reason why this skill doesnt work all the time is because of the mindset of the person that youre attracted to.Is that person already i n a relationship? Is that person not looking for a relationship even though they are single? Is the person youre attracted to not attracted to you back? There are many reasons as to why the negative effects might take place. Overall, never skip out on an opportunity to possibly engage in a lifelong friendship or relationship. Youll never know the outcome until you try. For communication to have meaning it must have a life. It must transcend you and me and become us. In a small way we then grow out of our old selves and become something new. Hugh Prather